Attractive for who ?

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Smile is definitely a starter for any relationship to lead. It opens and warms a person’s heart not only to look but to see. Looks are important for eyes but mood is a detecting device..if beautiful eyes are upset..we want to look away..who wants an aunt on display. Oh! Did I mention it to you..anger makes us look worse than a haggard sailing crew..all happiness washed away..heart dead and soul calls May day ! May day !

Listen to attraction tips..it is all about loving with care..and that is really attractive all the way..from teens to twenties to thirties and fifties..if you are still living..in health and peace..be attractive to your spouse at least.

Good Morning :)

tumblr_mozs8x08ER1svfsoao1_500¬† I must greet with a happy face ūüôā

Each day seems like a race..are we moving towards a set destination..as we pass hours and days…ultimately few would reach their goals set for this world..others they will just pass ..away..waves are days..it must move..and fly away..Have a lovely day..moving closer to your target for today ūüôā Have you made a target ..or you want to jot down what you plan for today ..smile ..you are starting your day .

Work or Job

Each one of us, have acquired an interest to work or forced into a profession. Those engaged in labor intense work , have less education and work is repetitive.

In context of Bangladesh, the GDP is mostly based on farmers’ production, day laborers contributions, garment factory workers and overseas workforce. All those who make the country prosper are the less educated even illiterate.

The wages they earn is minimal, and the reason they want to keep their jobs is due to the lurking abject poverty. It is rather a thought, those who make country prosper never gets any chance to see themselves work in a better condition or get raise in their salary. Few may get lucky to have good working place, but mostly they have to face humiliation and threats for losing their job, simply because vacancies are lesser and applicants are more than needed, yes..population explosion.

In this scenario where job is a dream, the vision for a dream job seldom is thought by the average worker. However, there are aspiring stories of women and men living in rural areas, who have worked with their own resources to establish their own business. Mostly in craftsmanship.

The  workers are never trained formally for any job, they learn the work as a helper and after few years they are capable of doing as told. So, they can not understand why and how the work is done, except few mutual discussions that are necessary for performing the work. This makes the thinking process come to a halt, the owners or the middle men thinks, too much information would make the worker deviate from his/her work. Secondly, the workers are unsatisfied from their jobs, so they keep on trying to change their work , this shifting and changing makes them unreliable, in other words, there is no trust between the worker and the owner, both are uncertain of their future in terms of permanency.

Investment of time and training can only be rewarding, if commitment is from both side, unfortunately, it makes difficult for both to commit , hence an atmosphere of mistrust and uncertainty leads to many accidents. The most recent tragedies were at Garment factories, where the building got on fire and the collapsible gate was locked, as the garment workers were in a habit of stealing material from the store.

It seems, there is a need for a vocational training led by government at Councillor level, so that a close social network will encourage youngsters to engage in learning the art to work professionally, as per their capacity and aptitude with literacy being the basic need. And the investment made on them would not get wasted.

Pain- again

The agony  of  pain. It comes and disturbs you  once or repeatedly. Effecting your normal life , work schedule and commitments . You are traumatised physically and  mentally..it will have effect on your financial status too..socially you will be absent  or dependent ..on who ?Image

The location from where pain is generated..What is the cause . Is it broken..or got burned..got dried and gaps ¬†have formed ..or its’ degenerating ¬†got twisted ..what has hurt in the body..the message ¬†must go to the brain..and signals are vivid..You ¬†want to get away or subside ..Image

The doctor advise you for the recovery but the  first thing to help you get some relief  are the painkillers .What medication can do? It can disrupt the signals reaching brain about the pain..or it can heal in real..and recover the tissues  or mend the broken bones and so the pain is no more.Image

Fighting  pain..that returns time and again , has to be described in detail. How it happens. What makes it return? Where  does it  occur?

Sometimes  psychological help is sought ..when visible identification is no longer  possible ..as to what is causing the pain. Therapies are needed, counselling too. How much does  pain disrupt your life..and affect others in your family.

When, the cause ¬†is identified, treated and you have recovered. You ¬†will not remember the ¬†pain..what you remember ¬†is that it was agonising, it ¬†made you suffer…and all its effects..but the”Pain” is no longer lingering in your brain..the signal ¬†stops and ¬†pain too.

I pray for all those who suffer from any sort of  pain, that  while enduring they be able to handle it and hopefully the  pain will go..

Go away pain I don’t want you ¬†inside me anymore..got sore..burnt out and worn out..please leave.. do go ..and no one will miss you..so don’t bother to return..ever.

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If you come..then you must go

People come and they shall go

You will also go one day

what will stay is the goodness of heart

an open mind ..

laughter for start

So..after you get over the blues

come out in the open, will ya

time to find ways to prove that..

you did improve the world around you ūüôā

Johanna Martenson – Ds Mag

A city made¬†272 367 465 558 653 1106up of bread..it decays and ferments..the cities that decay within are not any different. It may not deteriorate in the physical aspect..but it’s social life and health maybe ¬†on its decay..eating up values and relationships..a city ¬†that is demolished ¬†when culture crumbles and inheritance is kept aside..literature, art and poetry gets dissolved..and nothing is solved..as nothing remains after all.

What if, I try

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My friend always loved animals and she even maitained a small animal farm. She had collected, stray catts, limping dog, lost sheep, ducks and a goat. Each time I visited her, she had an additon to show. If I asked her , did you keep her answer would be..so innocent eyes I couldn’t resist..Of course :))

She taught me to try and love animals and that would help me to love people.

Unconditional love ¬†is the lesson behind the rescue mission..and I now feel..what if I try ūüôā